Easing First Date Nerves
Preparation is key to easing those first date nerves. It can be nerve-racking finally meeting someone with whom you have been chatting online for a while, but do not worry, there are steps you can take to ensure things run smoothly.
Arrange to meet somewhere you will both feel comfortable. Meeting for a coffee is good, as it allows you to bail out and make your excuses if things are not going well. Equally, it is easy to extend the date and move on somewhere else if things are rosy. This is a getting to know you session, so it is important that you can hear each other speak. Avoid noisy places with loud music and distractions.
Prepare topics of conversation to avoid any awkward silences. You can refer to past conversations you have had online. Ask questions and listen to the answers. Remember communication is a two-way street and the only way we learn things about each other is by listening.
Be safe. Before a first date with an unknown person tell a friend where you are going and who you will be with.
